After getting admission in Inter I started getting up at night to study. My family members made me realizes that I will not be given admission in medical college if I did not pass exam with good marks. I thought not to darken my future. I use to take a lot of tea to avoid sleep, so I took exam but could not get good enough marks to get admission. Now my family members are talking about marriage and I am not ready for that. there is a strange fear I cannot sleep whole night , I feel restless , there will be new people , new house and that stranger with whom I will have to spend all the life, how he will be I do not know what will happen , if my life face defeat it is good to end the life than this.
Suggestion: sleeplessness effects the mental health, by constantly awaking there comes restlessness, deadness in feeling and quick hopelessness and agitated nature. You got good marks but you accept it a failure when you did not get the admission. now this fear is also coming about marriage, it is not the matter of death and life to pass with good marks or bad marks, in the same way there must not be far of failure of marriage be so overwhelming that one think to end the life, think positive, usually girls have live life with new people, meet with successful married girls who are living a hood and prosperous life to bring positive change in thoughts.
Why you did not marry?
I married at the age of 35. 10 years have passed now my son is 8 years old now when I see him; I think that why I did not marry at the age of 25, if he would be young how good it would be, how I will take care of small kids in old age. My relatives and friends also make me realize this disappointment is increasing.
Suggestion: either you marry early or late, children of all grow , you don't worry about it, education and upbringing of your children must be good, think positive ,and do not care of the talks of people which disappoint you. Meet every with happiness, your positivity will affect your children as well. If your hopelessness increased then your children will also learn to be hopeless soon.
My Daughter looks Mirror all the time:
My daughter looks mirror all the time and she says that sometimes she watches his real face which is and sometime she watches a face which can be called beautiful. Her face appear in different angles to her. She is our only daughter, I listen with full concentration whatever she says. She gets attraction from white and fair complexion girl, and says us to change her skin, and then we all become sad because we do not have so much money. One day my sister said that she is suffering from psychological issue, we became so angry because we cannot bear that people call our daughter mad or psychological issue. Because she talks about good things and she is good in studies and she also looks so good, but we cannot understand this sadness of her which comes after looking in the mirror.
suggestion: this is not only your daughter's but usually girls either they are fat, tall , or small height, their hair are not good, their complexion is not good or their features are bulky etc. important is that how family members reacts to that especially mother. Daughter looks her face in mirror so you ignore her habit but give her some business, those who have something to do have no time to think negative about their own self but accomplishment of responsibilities gives peace.
Pain in stomach and shooting cramps
From Last many months there is pain in my stomach sometimes their appear pain or sometimes cramps. Friends suggested smoking, it helped for some days but then it became the same. I do not feel pain at night time, I talk to friends with happy mood at night nobody can say that I am ill, in morning I keep on changing the sides on bed. I am staying at my sister's house due to college studies; I do not want to hurt them by any way. ( Sharjeel khan Peshawar)
Suggestions: According to specialists one should adopt the healthiest ways of treatment. Intoxicating medicine and gas giving foods must be avoided, every night have good sleep up till a fix time and exercise regularly.
He likes any girl
my son is 18 years old he is good I. studies he was very good before , his friends told that he started liking a girl, I also felt that he remains absent minded most of the time. He has lost interest in surroundings, either anybody come or go he remains busy with his own self. Always talks on mobile, I wanted him to get higher education. What all this happened? I have only son (Iffat Kareem, Lahore)
Suggestion: this happens with boys who are not open to their parents, they keep their problems and activities to their own self and do not discuss or they discuss with their friends.Their Friends are also of their own age and they suggest wrong things. There is need to talk to your son politely and with love.Young boys and girls seems sad these days it is very common, this situation can be handled with discussion.
Effected of depression recovered by the site of Ubqari
Respected Hakeem Asslam O alikum, I was swear patient of tension and depression, I was tired of getting treatments from every place. When I visited the ubqari website I got this tip, it touched me deeply when I read it. I got at the same day when I used it was amazing. I am using this tip I am getting a lot of benefits from this tip.
This is the prescription, Huwashafi: Khameera Gaozuban, Jawahir dar Umbari, Jawahir mohra Safof. Mix one gram Jawahir Mohra Safof in 100 gram khameera gaozuban Jawahirdar Umbari. use one teaspoon in morning and evening, except this I take good time for sleep, I got treatment for digestion system, I use droppers for nose "Naak shifa" with this I am fully healthy now.
